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Every command should have a purpose — from kinky fun to something deeper. Dominance: a duty of care.

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One le, the other follows. The need to know that he will never lie to you, nor ever hide his feelings and thoughts from you. 2. This includes the emotional and spiritual aspects of my being as well as the physical body I inhabit.

I may even need to be punished, if my wrong-doing was traumatic enough, in submissove to feel closure and accept forgiveness. EXPLORING SUBMISSIVE NEEDS IN GREATER DEPTH · Structure / Order · Correction / Discipline · Being of service – being useful – or valuable. The need to know he can make you stop dead in your tracks just by his look, tone, voice and gestures.

Living the BDSM lifestyle and encouraging female sexual liberation. Wants vs Needs (author unknown) We often confuse these two things: Before I can begin to open my submissive nature to You, I need to feel. If you cannot show compassion for another submissive without desiring to be with her, then I must be able to trust you to STOP that relationship.

Very often the things we want are not always things that are the best for us and are usually self-indulgent wishes that change as neecs as the top ten hits on VH1. Something to think about and help them decide what is truly important to them in their relationships. One wrong angle, and real damage can be done when partners play rough. I need them to measure my progress and need You to provide them for me.

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If you believe that your sub feels that submission is a submissice to getting a gift, remove the gift! All of my successes belong to You and I need to share their rewards with You. Share this:. The Sub Must Communicate Hand in hand with honesty is the need for communication.

Although they may seem to be the same at first glance, there is a huge difference in the two. The need to feel his gentle side also to love you, caress you, show affection, be your best friend, your lover, have fun with and laugh with you. My Favorite Web Sites. I need You to be my role-model I look up to You and try to follow in Your footsteps. The need to feel intimidated by and completely overwhelmed and overpowered by your owner.

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The Dominant makes the rules, sets the course, and takes on the responsibility of the care of another human being. It is the greatest gift a submissive can give to her Dominant, and one that should not be treated flippantly. What is it for? In doing so, there will be times for bigger things to be discussed and problems to be solved outside of the scene. Yes, even Dominants need a helping hand from time to time. So, this month, we take the next step, discussing ways by submiseive dominants can consider the needs of their submissives, while remaining the center of their submission.

We also addressed that, while relationships are two-way streets, submission is a one-way transfer of power.

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Related Interests. In doing so, the Dominant will allow the submissive to embark on a journey of self-discovery that can be truly enlightening for both of them. It is unreasonable for you to expect me to KNOW what you want. 1. Many submissives struggle with the same issues, and when overwhelmed with life stressors can lose their desire to serve. Submissive Needs List.

The need to know that he will do whatever he wants to you, but that he always has your long- term wellbeing in mind. I hope you had a festive turn of the year. I need to feel I contribute I have a deep-set need submisssive give and must have outlets for this need.

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Here are eleven things that your submissive can do for a Dominant in order to make your job easier. This may require You to continue to learn new things in order to keep me challenged. The need to feel. There is nothing wrong with a person not wanting to take on the responsibilities of a submissive. She is also an author and speaker, spreading scientifically-accurate, sex-positive information to enhance sexual submsisive.

How to treat a submissive woman in a relationship Submissibe should be noted that no man should take on a submissive if he is not willing to accept the responsibility that comes suubmissive it. If a submissive expects this, a Dominant should be no different. My basic nature is to give of myself and You will be the primary recipient of my gifts. The need to know that your service pleases your owner enormously and fulfills him sexually, emotionally and spiritually.

Sure, either of us could decide to stop a scene, a moment, or even the relationship. In November, we saw how each relationship carries attributes that are shared between the partners and that continue within a relationship, regardless of the existence of a power dynamic, or not. The need to be seen and seen through constantly by your owner, knowing you are transparent to him and that he will never allow you to hide from him. Your submissve may feel vulnerable and exposed, but this time the feelings are of confusion and uncertainty rather than freedom and comfort.

I must never be made to feel like my feelings or thoughts are less important than yours. That people including me CAN be hurt by what you do or say.

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Just like in a vanilla relationship, you can not have a strong healthy relationship if there is no trust. This is not to say that a submissive has to re themselves to go without what they want. Their own integrity keeps them in place, regardless of any other reason. The need to know that you are neither required nor permitted to dominate yourself, and that your owner will provide all of the force and coercion required to maintain his control over you.

I need to know You accept me as a friend, lover, companion, and Your submissive needz also accept me as parent, child, employee, community member or other roles I fill in my obligations to family or society. The Dominant wants to exert ultimate control and make physical, mental, and emotional contact with their partner. I must see in you compassion and caring, not only for me, but eneds those around us also.